Lent 4: The Parable of the Compassionate Father
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Well, good morning again, everybody. It is good to see you this morning. I'm Father Morgan Reed, the vicar here at Corpus Christi Anglican Church, and you've come on one of the two rose-colored Sundays this morning. This is Laetera Sunday, which is kind of like Gaudete Sunday during Advent.
The word Laetera is a command, meaning to rejoice, and we wear a rose to signal that this season of Lent is coming close to its end. So next week will be Passion Sunday. We'll have the crosses and the icons veiled, and then we'll enter into Holy Week.
So we are nearing the end of Lent. And today's gospel passage is beautiful. In some ways it's been an undercurrent of all of the weeks of Lent. I haven't made it explicit, but the compassion of God is the foundation of repentance. And so today it is explicit in our passage. It is often called the parable of the prodigal son, and so today some have argued that actually it should be the parable of the running father, and I like that.
We have two pictures of two brothers here, a younger brother and an older brother, two different kinds of pictures of rebellion, and the father here is pictured as being this compassionate father who addresses them both in their unique ways. And so this passage is an encouragement to people who feel like they're not worthy of God's love. It's an encouragement to those who are listening who would have been tax collectors and known that they were considered sinners by the religious elite.
It's an encouragement for you and for me, because we often find ourselves in the place of the child who's run far. And so it also offers a challenge to the self-righteous, the older brother, and to those who are sitting and feeling satisfied in their own sense of righteousness and worth before God. And most important though, no matter where you are in that spectrum this morning, it offers us a glimpse into the compassionate character of the God who loves us.
That's the most important thing to take away from this parable. Our New Testament passage this morning that we read from St. Paul talks about us being ambassadors of reconciliation, where we're the ones who are showing the world what it means to be reconciled to God and those who are inviting others into the same. And so this parable is actually left intentionally open, but if we could fill it in, we would be the ones who are reconciled and who are inviting people to the party, so to speak.
And whether we're running, whether we're self-righteous, the Father is inviting us into new life. And this invitation, and his invitation into his compassion, is what we are called to invite other people into. So I want to just look at the parable this morning.
The First Son
The first son, the younger son, I want to look at and the father's reaction to him. Jesus is opening this parable with this son who is asking his father to share his share of the inheritance right now, which is equivalent to wishing that his dad was dead, right? Because normally you don't get the inheritance until your parent dies, and so it's insulting. He's asking his dad to sever his relationship with him, to take ownership of property, which he's going to then liquidate for cash and go off somewhere and spend that cash.
So he would rather have cash and the inheritance now than a relationship with his dad, his brother, and the rest of his family. The son takes the land and the property, and he does exactly that. He sells it off for cash, he takes that cash, he goes off into a far country with cash in hand, severed from his relationship with his family, and he wanders off and he spends everything on carnal pleasures.
And then a famine comes, and so he's left without food, without money, without any connections, and he looks to a local pig farmer, which if you're Jewish, this would make you unclean. And so he's at his lowest point, but not quite his lowest point, because now he's envious of pigs. He's saying, if I could just eat what they're eating, I'd be okay.
But he's not even allowed to eat what they're eating. So now he's hit rock bottom. He sees how low he's fallen, and it says that he came to himself, and he remembers that his father's day laborers have it better than he does at this moment, so he's not asking to be a son again.
He decides, I'm gonna go to return to my father and repent, and maybe he'll just hire me as a day laborer. All he's carrying with him is his own awareness and sense that he needs help. Without knowing the type of response that he's going to encounter, he goes back to his father, because anything is better than where he's at at the moment.
And Jesus says, while he was still far off, his father saw him, and his father was filled with compassion. He ran, and he put his arms around him, and he kissed him. So think about this. When the father sees his son far off in the distance, he knows there's been a change of heart. The father runs after him, which is a very potentially embarrassing posture. It's not something becoming of a father.
Lots of commentators point out that it's a little bit embarrassing to show this man sort of girding up his loins and running after his son. It's a boyish behavior that his dad is doing, but his dad, his compassion compels him to run. And so he meets him, and he embraces him, and he kisses him before the son even says a word to him.
If we think about what he should have done in their culture, the father should have cut him off. He should have rebuked the son, but that's not the character of the father that is in this story. And so what strikes me is that the father's compassion in this story comes to the son before the son even says a word.
Like the son has his confession all prepared, but the compassion of the father meets the son before the son even gets a word out. And it shows us something about the character of God, that God sees the deep intention of the heart, and often his compassion meets us before the words of confession even exit our lips. And that's amazing.
And so this is meant to be an encouragement for those who are listening, like the tax collectors, those who think, gosh, you know what, I've missed the boat. Like I am not worthy of God's love. I'm not worthy of being a part of this community.
Everyone hates me. Like this is for them. God sees the intention of their heart before any confession leaves their lips. And if you think of these individuals, they have a whole lifetime of dysfunction, trauma, bad decisions, false narratives that they've held on to, misplaced trust in unsafe people and relationships, other parts of their lives that form complex stories that make them what they are now, which other people would describe them and give them the label tax collector and sinner. But these are images of God, made in, you know, people made in God's image. But they're starting to believe these stories for themselves.
And it's easy to see them as they hear the story from Jesus, how they would identify themselves with this son who squandered all of his wealth. And maybe they're wondering things like, what do I have to say to get God to love me again? What do I need to do or say to be accepted amongst my family again? What do I need to do or give up to earn God's love because I've squandered it? How do I get rid of this nagging sense of guilt in my heart? And the answer from this story is to just do the simple task of turning towards God with nothing but your own awareness that you're in need of his help. That's the very first thing.
And then what happens is God comes to meet you with his compassion, to fall on you and embrace you and kiss you before the lips ever utter a confession. And his kiss and his embrace come and meet you before a word comes out. And so this is such a hopeful passage.
And you can see why this is something that people often cling to. It is good news. We should turn from false hopes and narratives that are unhelpful, dysfunctions that are part of our story, the multitudes of poor decisions we may have made, the sinful dispositions, the longing for autonomy from God.
We should turn and look to God. Repent. That's what turn means. We should repent of those things. Turn towards God with just the recognition that we need his help. And then he comes to meet us with his compassion.
It's like one of the call acts say in the prayer book, God is always more ready to hear than we are to pray. It's one of my favorite sentences. God is more ready to hear than we are to pray.
He is more ready to lavish his compassion on you than you are to turn. So it doesn't take much. Praise God.
The Second Son
And so we've seen the younger son, we've seen the father's compassion, and now let's look at the older son because he's also a very important character in this story. The father has been overjoyed at the younger son's return. It's a taste of the resurrection.
Kind of reminds me of like why we're wearing rose today. It's a little taste of resurrection before we get to Easter in a few weeks. And this son of mine, he says, was dead and now he is alive. And now we're introduced to the older son. The father had begun this celebration of the son he returned. They're having a party.
There's music. There's dancing. They've killed the fatted calf, which is now part of the English vernacular, right? This is a very exciting time.
And the older brother is out working in the field. Nothing wrong with that. It's just what he's been doing every day since his brother left.
And he hears this music and he hears this dancing and he's wondering what's going on and he hears that his brother has come home and now his father is throwing a party to celebrate his brother, who is really not his brother in his heart anymore. Now imagine the older brother's internal dialogue with me for a second. Again, this is from the Gospel of Morgan. It's totally apocryphal, but in my mind's eye, this is where his heart is, right? What do you mean that he came home? He should know better than to come back. He should stay where he was. He sold off the family's property.
He rejected us. He rejected me as his brother. Who does he think he is to come back after doing all of that? Why would my dad throw him a party? He's not worthy of a party.
He's never thrown me a party. I'm here day in and day out. I'm working hard to support this family and I'm not going to support any of this. It's not fair. I've worked way too hard. I've sacrificed too much.
And the pain of my so-called brother is just too much for me to come inside. And so notice that the father meets the older brother and he says, why don't you come in? He is beckoning the older son to come in and to celebrate. And it says in verse 28 that the father comes out and he pleads with his older son to come in.
He pleads with him. He's begging him, please come in and rejoice with what is happening. The father has compassion to meet both of his sons where they're at in their different places, their unique places.
I was reading a commentary on this passage and it had reminded me of a story of something in my own story that reminded me of this parable. I was working at a church serving and we had a cleanup day at a local stream and we had gotten our boots on. We got our trash bags and our gloves and we were walking through this stream along the hills.
It was pretty muddy and I was just looking for trash. Like I was going up and down these hills, going across the water, looking for little pieces of trash that I could put in this trash bag. And I was looking for garbage step after step.
My eyes were down. I was focused. I was going to clean this stream and then when we were done, I threw away the trash bags and then I stepped down and I watched as kids were enjoying the stream.
They were throwing rocks in it and I couldn't be helped but just be stunned at how beautiful the scenery was. I had missed it as I was looking for trash. I was sitting there going, wow, thank you Lord.
Like I got to be a part of the beauty of this place that kids get to enjoy. But I totally missed the creek's beauty for the sake of the garbage that I was focused on. And that's a bit of what's happening here.
The older brother is missing the greater picture of the compassion of the father because his fixation is on the brother's sins, his rejection, his own pain, and his own shame. And so if his father can have this kind of compassion on the younger brother, the good news is that the father can have this kind of compassion on the older brother as well. And that's the larger picture that he's missing.
Sometimes God does grant to some people more material success than their character can handle. And as a result of that, we find people joining the prodigal son. That success leads to walking away from God because that person forgets their need from him.
They come under the illusion and delusion that I can do this myself. Look, I've done all this stuff and I'm doing it well. God must be blessing it.
And I think of people who have really public platforms, who are way too young, or their character is just not ready for the responsibility of it. Like the money, the success, the fame, they often turn out to be their downfall in the end. Hitting the lowest point is often what draws people to repentance, to turning.
It doesn't have to be. Thanks be to God when it's not, but it often is hitting that lowest point. And so the joy of repentance is found here in the Father's words.
We had to celebrate. It was a compulsion that we couldn't not celebrate. We had to do it because this brother of yours was dead and now he has come back to life.
He was lost and now he is found. There is a joy in the kingdom over this little resurrection. And there's a parable about the kingdom of God.
It's an invitation to those who know their their sense of need and who are drawing near to Jesus. It is good news for those of us who know that we have need and long for the compassion of God. For those who struggle with envy like the older brother, who sit in self-righteousness judging others with a sense of superiority, this is also an invitation to the gospel to come to the table and to rejoice with God's new work of creation in those that we have deemed so unworthy.
And so this story, if you'll notice, it's intentionally left open. And it's done so for you and I to imagine who we are in this story. Are we the younger son? Are we the older son? Are we something else? It's left open for us.
All of us have reasons for why it's difficult to repent, to turn towards God, why it's hard for us to express our need to accept the compassion of God. But this story compels us to look to the Father and to discover his compassionate embrace over and over again. And if somebody else's actions have resulted in resentment and shame, the kind that has distanced us from God, part of our healing is to long for the repentance of those people that we can't imagine God would love.
And for God's compassion to do a work of new creation in them. I think another part of healing is to join the banquet by taking part in the community life of the church. The Eucharist reminds us of this every week, where we sit together, we stand together, we sing together in this gallery of portraits of prodigal children.
And as you see the image of God restored in one another, you see a little bit of a taste of the resurrection in the lives of those that you're sitting next to. You have all been dead and you have been raised to life, and you get to see this weekend and week out, maybe more than weekend and week out, if you take the opportunity to get to know each other over coffee or a meal. This is the opportunity to build that muscle memory of rejoicing over the work of God's compassion in other people, so that you can see what God can do in your own heart and life.
And so we need to long for the Father's joy in finding the dead come to life. And on this Laetare Sunday, let's rejoice in the compassion of God that's found in Jesus Christ, who came to bring the dead back to life. As our New Testament passage reminded us this morning, in Christ the old things have passed away and all things have become new.
And so you and I are ambassadors of the kingdom of God, ambassadors of Christ, and we've been entrusted with this good news of reconciliation, like the prodigal son, like the older son, who, you know, if the story had ended the way I wanted to, he said, okay, I'm going to see what you can do in this prodigal son of yours. In Jesus forgiveness of sins is possible, and new creation is the reality, and reconciliation with God that we all enter into through the death and the resurrection of Jesus. And so in Christ our wounds are redeemed, and we're restored to life.
And so are we the older brother today, or are we the younger brother? Part of this Lent, what we need to do is take some time to ponder what God's compassion might look like in our own repentance, and why we find it so hard to turn to God and to accept his compassionate embrace. That helps us avoid the besetting sins of the younger brother, but also ask to discover God's compassion, and what it might look like for those who we wish weren't actually part of our life and our story. And that's really hard, and it's also the beginning of healing, and it keeps us from the besetting sin of pride that's found in the older brother, and envy.
And with whichever brother you identify with this morning, remember ultimately that this is a parable about the Father and his compassion, that God longs to come and meet you with a compassionate embrace before the words of confession ever exit your lips. Let me pray for us. O Lord our God, accept the fervent prayers of your people.
In the multitude of your mercies, look with compassion upon us and all who turn to you for help, because you are gracious, O lover of souls. And to you we give glory, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, now and forever. Amen.
Transcribed by TurboScribe.ai. Edited by the Author.